A Big Life Lesson... from my dog.
Simple wisdom...Truth. Philippians 4.11-12
Is there a litmus test for the trust in God we claim to have? Of course, there are several dead giveaways that we walk closely with the Lord, such as we have recently spoken of, but this is one you might not have considered.
I learned this from my trusted companion. Fact is, he embodies this quality more than any other soul I know - that of contentment. His name is Chester, and I adopted him when he weighed just two pounds, this little dog of mine. He knows what makes him happy--being next to me. Ha, I call him my Christian dog as he has staked his claim at my left side as I read my Bible and pray [in my study chair] in the morning. Funny thing, the other dogs know not to even try to get in that chair!
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So, is Chester a brilliant dog? Yes, he is smart, but he's no German Shepherd. He knows what makes him the most content and he goes after that thing-it is being in my presence, which even Psychology Today states as a dog's number one pleasure - being in his owner's presence.1
Contentment. Ah, contentment.
I remember being a young mother when I first fully recognized Paul's words, "In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being content-"
I was in the Santa Cruz mountains in Northern California at my first ever women's retreat, and those words disarmed me.
'Really Paul? Could you be content when:
--Your mom just died, and truth be told, she might have been your reason for living?
--The thing you fasted and prayed about for 10 years finally came to be, and then it crashed and burned?
--You are a young mother and your little kids are growing up in a world that seems to have a daunting future, and well, sometimes you worry about what will happen?
Yup, he said it--please read it slowly and carefully: "I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I find myself. I know both how to make do with little, and I know how to make do with a lot. In any and all circumstances I have learned the secret of being content-whether well fed or hungry, whether in abundance or in need."2 Challenged, I memorized the passage and have reflected on it hundreds and hundreds of times since.
Contentment is rather illusory, isn't it? Sort of like grabbing ahold of a slick balloon, just when we get it, it seems to escape our grasp again!
Looking back, contentment has looked different to me at different times of my life. The dictionary defines contentment as 'satisfaction' and culturally, we think of it as being okay with what we have. But the Greek word used to describe contentment in the Bible does not just mean to be satisfied, or to have sufficient, but to have an attitude that lets us be satisfied with whatever is available. Aha. That would account for Paul's disposition and his ability to be content, even when shackled in prison and in pain. Wow.
Now consider this from a well-known Christian author and speaker, Joni Eareckson Tada, who at the age of 17, broke her neck in a diving accident in the Chesapeake Bay, severing her spinal cord and becoming paralyzed from the shoulders down . . . Joni defines contentment as "an internal quietness of heart . . . that gladly submits to God in all circumstances."3 Wow.
One thing I know about contentment - it is for the 'now'. How common it is for us to think I will be happy when . . . or everything will be better when . . . or I will be satisfied when I get this... or become this . . . THEN I will be happy. Not so! Contentment is not found in possessions, accomplishments or even station in life. Experiencing contentment involves good and right thinking, evaluating our purpose and living by the priorities that help us fulfill that purpose. God alone gives us our purpose in life, which is why godliness with contentment is great gain.4 But as Tada indicated (above), contentment is not about what we have or do not have, it is something that we can know by fully trusting God - in spite of heartache or trial. And in Christ, we can know peaceful quietness in our hearts, even in heartache.
And honestly, I think Chester has it right. My pup has learned the simple route to contentment - being in the presence of the one he adores and vice-versa. Hey wait...that reminds me of what the psalmist wrote of the Lord, 'in Your presence is fullness of joy.'5 Not just any kind of joy, but the fullest expression of it. I so love that!
Contentment: do not be satisfied until you have found it. Paul found it - he had it; he knew the secret. Note: contentment is learned and make no mistake, you will not truly find it without Jesus. But in His presence is fullness of joy . . . and yes, my dear friend, contentment.
Always bearing in mind what we know to be true about our God: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9uuCzo7PUo. I Know, Big Daddy Weave
Christine & Chester!
1 - Just being in the presence of his owner brings pleasure to a dog "Just Being Near You is Reward Enough for Dogs," Psychology Today.
2 - Philippians 4.11-12, CSB
3 - When God Weeps: Why our Suffering Matters to the Almighty, Joni Eareckson Tada and Steven Estes
4 - 1 Timothy 6.6
5 - Psalm 16.11, NKJV